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It doesn't
matter how great of a cut you have: if you don't know how to care for
and maintain your curls at home, your hair will never be the best it can
be. When I was in beauty school, someone once told me, "Make sure you
never show your clients how to finish their hair as well as you do it,
because it will make them think you're a genius." I remember feeling so
offended by that. Why in the world would I not want one of my clients to
be able to style her hair as well as I can? Why would I not want her to
look as gorgeous as possible, no matter who does her hair?
And really, isn't it also in my best interest for my client to look like
a million bucks, 24 hours a day? Inevitably, someone is bound to go up
to her and ask her, "You have to tell me who does your hair!" That is
what is going to make me look like a genius (and, frankly, bring me more
business), not holding back on education I firmly believe each and every
one of my clients has the right to own.
Here is everything you need to know to keep your curls sassy, healthy
and frizz-free:
The Cleanse
There's a whole lot of screaming going on these days about whether to
shampoo or not to shampoo. In the last several years, many girls with
curls
have abandoned detergent-based shampoos in favor of non-sulfate
cleansers or even simple conditioner cleanses in an effort to minimize
dryness. However, advocates of shampooing insist that by not using
detergent-based shampoo to cleanse the scalp and hair, these individuals
will start to experience scalp issues and eventual hair loss. These
shampoos, they argue, are the only way to ensure the hair and scalp are
as clean as they need to be in order to maintain proper hair health.
Piffle, I say. Read on.
What are Sulfates?
Sulfates are harsh, drying detergents (surfactants) found in regular
shampoos that are extremely damaging to curly hair because they strip it
of its natural moisture, making it frizzy and unmanageable.
It has been my experience that discontinuing the use of sulfate-based
products will restore about 80% of the hair's general health. Now,
that's not a scientific number, merely an observation I've made with my
own clients, but I doubt there are many non-sulfate cleanser advocates
who would disagree with me—I'd bet with confidence they've observed
exactly the same thing.
Anyone who tells you not shampooing will eventually lead to hair loss IS
partially right—but they are only giving you half the picture. If you
don't cleanse your scalp properly and your hair follicles become clogged
with sebum, then yes, you absolutely could start to experience some
serious issues. Your hair follicles can suffocate, they can become
infected, and/or you can indeed start losing your hair over time.
But it is not the sulfates in shampoo that keep your scalp and follicles
clean—movement and agitation are what do the cleansing.
Think of a washing machine: that agitator in the middle that swishes
your clothes back and forth is there for a reason. Without it, your
laundry detergent would be fairly ineffective, no matter how many
“mountain fresh” chemicals are loaded in there.
If you use a non-sulfate based or conditioner cleanser
or shampoo with an alternate surfactant once a week and give yourself a
really good, brisk scalp massage while cleansing—using your fingertips
and rubbing your scalp with a firm, energetic circular motion—you are
massaging the sebum, dirt and debris out of your hair follicles while
stimulating your sebaceous glands to maintain their proper function. The
cleanser acts as an agent to carry that oil and debris away without
damaging and drying out your hair shaft. That's the real purpose
of a cleanser, not this sulfate-based shampoo nonsense that strips your
hair of the moisture and essential oils that keep it healthy.
If, however, you use a non-sulfate or conditioner
cleanser or shampoo with an alternate surfactant once a week and you
squirt a bit on your scalp and kind of halfheartedly move it around,
then rinse without really doing any kind of work, you aren't cleansing
your scalp correctly and you may, in fact, start having problems. But it
doesn't have anything to do with the fact that you are not using
shampoo. I've seen clients who use regular shampoo and their scalp is
full of dry flakes and scales because they don't cleanse their scalp
properly.
I personally believe much of the “you MUST use shampoo”
screaming is an effort to drive more product sales within the beauty
industry. Quite frankly, however, if you are doing a weekly non-sulfate
cleansing with some serious scalp massage and really focusing on getting
your scalp clean, you are doing all the right things and you should
never have any issues with clogged or damaged hair follicles (at least
not because of your cleansing routine).
The cleansing routine I recommend is this: apply a
curly-friendly cleanser to your hair and massage it into your scalp for
several minutes with a firm, circular motion, scrunching it into
the length to help activate the curl (don't use your fingernails, just
the pads of your fingers). Rinse well with warm water, massaging your
scalp to help remove the product. Then take a bit more of your cleanser
on your fingertips and perform a second, very gentle massage on your
scalp—not as long as your initial cleanse, but just a minute or so.
Rinse it out, then proceed with your routine. You've stimulated your
sebaceous glands and flushed everything out of your follicles with the
first massage, then calmed everything down, relaxed your follicles, and
slowed down your sebaceous glands with the second one. I've found this
is the most effective way to treat your scalp and it will keep it very
healthy.
You should only need to cleanse your hair once or twice a week,
depending on the hydration level of your hair.
The Conditioning
Moisture, moisture, moisture! It's all about the MOISTURE level of your
hair, my friends. Hair that's been well-moisturized with products
appropriate for curly hair and that has good porosity is what leads to
healthy, well-defined curls. MOISTURE is what defines and shapes our
curls, not product. MOISTURE is what chases frizz away. Curly hair
already tends to be dry naturally. Figure in the drying, dehydrating and
generally curl-unfriendly products we routinely use and it's no wonder
most of us are a dry, frizzy mess.
The biggest offender other than sulfates? Silicones, specifically
non-water soluble silicones. If sulfates are Public Enemy #1, non-water
soluble silicones occupy second place on the FBI (Frizz Buster
Identification) Most Wanted list.
Why Some Silicones are Not Our Friends
Many conditioners and styling products on the market, both professional
and drugstore brands, contain non-water soluble silicones, which lie on
top of the hair, creating an impenetrable barrier into the hair shaft.
They look like a quick fix for frizz since they temporarily smooth the
hair shaft down and make frizz seem to disappear—but they also suck out
the moisture from inside the hair, dehydrating curly locks and creating
more frizz in the long run. Since they can't be rinsed away with water,
they also build up on the hair shaft and generally require a surfactant
(detergent)-based shampoo to remove. Yet another vicious cycle in the
minefield of curly hair health.
You absolutely, positively must use a good quality conditioner
that's either silicone-free or has acceptable silicones in it, along
with healthy, botanically-based ingredients, to condition your hair.
WARNING: this is no place to skimp on product quality because your hair
will not form beautiful curls without frizz unless it is
well-moisturized—no ifs, ands or buts. I know many people are on a
budget and routinely purchase drugstore instead of salon-quality
products to save a little money, but you must make a splurge in your
product routine right here if you want your curls to be as beautiful as
they can be (and no, this is not just marketing hype—salon products
overall truly are of much better quality than drugstore ones, which
often have a lot of cheap junk in them as "fillers").
To effectively apply the conditioner to your hair: rake it liberally all
through your hair with your fingers, scrunching it into the length, and
let it sit for a few minutes so your hair can absorb what it needs.
Rinse out any excess with cool water. Cool water, like acid-based
products, will shut your cuticle down and help keep all that healthy
product inside your hair shaft where it belongs.
Pump Up the Moisture
Adding some conditioner back into your hair as a leave-in will help to
pump up the moisture in your hair even further.
When your hair is rinsed, bend over and let your dripping wet hair hang
free. Gently scrunch out the excess water from your hair with your
hands, but don't wring it dry—hair products normally work much better on
curly hair if it is very wet when you apply them. Rake in a good
conditioner appropriate for your hair type with your fingers from scalp
to ends until your hair feels like wet silk. It's lack of moisture that
causes frizz, so make sure your hair is getting enough! As you become
more familiar with the routine, you will begin to automatically sense
how much your hair will require at any given time (some days, you might
not even need any). Let your instincts become your guide.
As an example: my hair is very, very moisturized and very healthy, so I
usually only need to use a dollop the size of a quarter on my
about-five-inches-below-the-shoulder (dry) hair. If you are just
starting on your odyssey to curly hair health, you will find you might
need a good palmful at first, but take heart—that amount will gradually
decrease over time as your hair becomes less dry.
Some people advocate just leaving in some of your original conditioner
rather than rinsing it all out and applying additional product as your
leave-in. I disagree with that approach for two reasons: one, how do you
gauge how much you've rinsed out of your hair or know that you've left
in enough of the conditioner to be effective? Sticking your head under a
shower head or a hand-held sprayer doesn't exactly give you the best
level of control and you may be rinsing out more product than you
should.
Two, most people with curly hair only wash their hair once a week, but
many of us do a rinse and condition every day or every other day. And
let's face it, we live in a polluted world these days: cigarette smoke,
vehicle emissions, manufacturing pollutants—there is a ton of dirt and
debris in the air that we aren't even aware is getting in our hair.
These particles are going to cling to the conditioner you put in your
hair and stay in there if you don't rinse it out. So, don't you think
you should get rid of all that mess and put in a little fresh
conditioner instead?
Speaking of leave-ins: I don't generally have a whole lot of use for
products labeled "leave-in conditioners." I find that they are usually
only watered-down versions of regular conditioners and since we girls
with curls need all the moisture we can get, why bother? A bit of our regular
conditioner as a leave-in is a far superior (and more cost-effective)
method instead.
The Hold
While moisture is what defines and shapes your curls, styling products
are what provide the hold. The same rules for conditioners apply to
these products as well: dump the non-curl friendly silicones in favor of
ones that are or have no silicones in them at all. You can afford to be
a bit more flexible on product brand here, although good,
botanically-based products are always a better choice whenever possible.
The more natural the product, the better and more rapid your results
will be.
Still in the upside down position: rake a tablespoon of gel from your
scalp to your ends, distributing the product through the length, but
concentrating on the area from the roots to the mid-shaft (this
guarantees good product coverage on the top of your head, an area not
always coated well with product by only scrunching the product into your
hair). Don't forget your crown area and the nape of your neck, two areas
that are commonly neglected in styling product application—lean side to
side to reach these areas more easily, if necessary. Then liberally
scrunch a generous palmful of the gel into the length of your hair,
starting at the ends. Scrunch and squeeze your curls in a firm, upward
motion to your scalp, squeezing out as much remaining excess water as
you can while squeezing in the gel. The water will mix with the product
and form a crystalline cast over your curls, holding them in place and
preventing frizz from forming until they are dry.
In general, I advocate the use of styling gels over mousses and creams,
but that's not to say these products can't be effective. Remember, I
live in Florida and we combat a hellacious, sub-tropical humidity for
several months out of the year, so very strong gels tend to work better
for us down here. But mousses can often make hair look thicker -- a
bonus for curlies with thin, very fine hair—and creams can prevent fine,
wavy hair from looking and feeling weighed down, so these might be
better choices for you. Experiment and play with different styling
product types until you find the one that works best.
Blot Dry and Clip
To remove the rest of the excess water from your hair, use a cotton
t-shirt, paper towels, baby diapers, or flour sack towels—any
cotton-based, absorbent product that has a completely smooth
surface (regular towels, such as terrycloth or microfiber, are too heavy
to be used on curly hair. They can cause friction, which will ruffle the
cuticle and cause frizz). Repeat the scrunching process, cupping
“clusters” of curls in the t-shirt. Scrunch and squeeze them towards
your scalp in a firm, upward motion, squeezing out the remaining
excess water.
Stand up and toss your hair back gently (do not fling your head back!)
and let your curls fall naturally to your shoulders, shaking your head
gently if necessary. Use the tail of a rattail comb to make sure none of
your curls are catching on each other and they are falling downwards
without wrapping around each other. If you wear your hair in a part,
this is the time to arrange your curls so they are falling the way you
want them when your hair is dry.
Clip up small sections of your hair on the top and crown of your head to
create more volume as your hair dries. Pinch a small section of curl at
the roots, then replace your fingers with a flat metal clip. Make sure
you clip straight down from the top so the clip will not catch your
curls and create frizz when it is removed. How your hair looks now is
what it will look like when it is dry, so clip carefully to avoid any
funny bumps or corners. Don't neglect the back of your head at the
crown, an area very easy to miss when you are clipping yourself: we
curlies have a tendency to go flat in that area. Use a handheld mirror
to view the back of your head so you can easily spot areas that should
be clipped. You can pinch the area with one hand while looking at it in
the mirror, then put the mirror down to clip it.
I also like to put two clips at the sides right below the temple area to
keep those side curls falling in a downward direction, plus it helps to
keep my hair from falling into my face while I am air-drying and going
about the rest of my morning routine (I HATE wet hair in my face!).
Once you get used to clipping and find a clip arrangement you like, you
can usually clip yourself in less than three minutes.
The Heat is On—Blow-Dry or
Air-Dry?
If you have the time in your routine, it's always best to let your hair
dry naturally whenever possible, without disturbing the curls, until
they are completely dry. If you have to use a blow-dryer, however, use a
diffuser and gentle heat to dry your curls without touching them and
without moving the dryer around continually—a surefire way to set
yourself up for frizz.
To diffuse your hair with a minimum of frizz: first, dry your scalp.
Keep the diffuser aimed at different sections of your scalp for about
two minutes without moving (use the cool shot to bring down the
temperature if the clips are heating up), then move to a different
section. Getting your scalp dry is the most critical part of the
process, so pay particular attention to make sure you do a good job
here.
I personally use a combination of air-drying and diffusing to do my
hair. After I clip myself up in the morning, I let my hair air-dry for
about an hour while I go about the rest of my usual routine—fixing
breakfast, making beds, packing lunches, putting on my makeup, etc. When
I'm ready to go and the only thing I have left to do is put on my shirt,
I diffuse for about 10-15 minutes to finish the drying process and I'm
done. Who says doing your hair has to take a lot of time and effort?
It should go without saying that using a blow dryer to straighten your
hair stretches and distorts your curls, causing dry, damaged hair over
time. If you are still straightening your hair all or part of the time,
please think long and hard about what you are doing to yourself. Every
time you blow-dry or flat-iron your hair, you compromise the health and
elasticity of your curls—resulting in frayed cuticles, split ends, and
brittle, porous hair. Why spend the time using good products and healthy
ingredients in an effort to restore your hair's luster and health, only
to destroy all of your hard work with such a brutal and curl-unfriendly
process? You and your curls deserve so much better than that!
A Word about "Negative Ion" Dryers
Much has been made in recent years about negative ion dryers, whose
proponents claim the negative ion air flow will dry hair faster at lower
heat settings, resulting in less damage. As of this writing, there is a
lot of talk, but not a whole lot of science behind these claims. I have
observed that my drying time and the drying time of my clients does
appear to be less with a negative ion dryer than with a conventional
one, but I can't sit here and claim I've done a whole scientific study
to prove it.
These dryers tend to be expensive, so if you are interested in
purchasing one, make sure you do your homework and talk to friends who
might already own one and can give you their opinion before you make the
investment. I have a negative ion dryer at work and a conventional dryer
at home, and I'm perfectly happy with my results with both of them. It's
all a matter of personal preference!
The Finish
When your hair is completely dry, remove the clips
carefully, then shake your hair gently to set your curls in motion. Bend
over, letting your curls fall free, and gently scrunch your curls to
break up any crystallized product. You can use a curl-friendly pomade to
help scrunch out the crunch and provide an additional level of hold if
you'd like. Only scrunch your curls from the underside, to avoid
creating frizz on the top of your head. If you would like more volume,
"scrub" your roots at the scalp with your fingertips from the
upside-down position to loosen the hair from the scalp and to obtain
more lift.
Stand up, shake your head again gently, arrange your hair and then stand
back and admire your beautiful curls!
POINTS TO
PONDER
As you begin to get used to your new hair care maintenance routine, here
are two things you should keep in mind:
Some people report their hair still feels "dirty" after moving to their
new no-sulfate, no non-water soluble silicone routine. But, please—don't
mistake the feeling of hydrated, moisturized hair with dirty hair. We
have been so conditioned to shampoo “until it squeaks” that the feel of
dry, stripped hair is all we know. Learn to appreciate and love how your
hair should feel: silky, supple and full of moisture.
Additionally, your hair may seem to freak out a little bit with the new
routine—a halo of frizz may rear its ugly head in the first week or two,
leading you to wonder: what am I doing wrong??? Relax! Your hair is
having a perfectly normal reaction to your new no-sulfate, no-silicone
routine. After years of being stripped of moisture and natural oils,
your curls aren't quite sure how to react to all this sudden hydration.
It may take a couple of weeks for your hair to regain its health and
settle down. Stick with the routine, no matter how tempted you might be
to give it up, and you will be rewarded with healthy, gorgeous,
frizz-free curls in the end.
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